My mother in law is Jewish. Not wishing to make too many trite stereotypes (!) but well, she can kill you with kindness.
I'm about to drop my second baby and I have the growing sense that her overwhelming need to help/ meddle is rearing its head. It happened with DD1, not so much help/ talk through the pregnancy (neurotic, anxious will the baby be ok etc) then bam, baby out, and I'm overwhelmed with an outpouring of help ( I know this sounds ungrateful but there is a thing of personal space, let me work out how to be a mom before you start sticking your oar in) not understanding thanks but no thanks, not right now. It caused such issues between me and my partner that it put us in couples counselling.
It just seems when I need to assert my 'mom' status she comes crashing in-with kindness(!) and occupies so much space.
Anyone have any tips to reign In assert some control over an errant MiL.??Apart from hitting her over the head with a frying pan, I'm not sure how to get her to hear me. But also because it's all wrapped up in 'help' and 'love' I can't yell at her to get out of the sodding way, which I would love to do...
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Diddlo · 01/07/2014 10:34
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