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DivaSkyChick's Home Water Birth (long story)

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DivaSkyChick Tue 24-Jul-07 23:26:42

Isabella Coco was born yesterday at 3:47 pm weighing 7 pounds 5 oz. She was born in the birthing pool in our flat, during work hours thank god because hypnobirthing notwithstanding, I let out a number of very gutteral roars at the end. No pain relief WHATSOEVER. I tried to take some tylenol but threw it up immediately. couldn't even keep water down...

I was in labor for about 8 hours. Had hints of contractions earlier than that but just that crampy feeling we all get. Once it started, however, it never stopped. Was six centimeters when the midwife arrived - "just to check me out" she had no plans to stay but changed her mind immediately. A few hours later she told me I was ten centimeters and the feeling of relief was overwhelming. I was so happy and I gess my body took a break because we had a few minutes to take photos and DH and I even made out to keep the next stage relaxed.

It wasn't. It was fast and furious and I was desperate for her not to crown because I feared ripping myself to shreads. Midwives yelling PUSH! Doula calmly saying "just let your body do what it feels" and me making some sound I've never heard before and hope never to make again.

She was born with her water in tact right up until I delivered her head. Then couldn't get another contraction to get the body out! Was so weird! I watched her underwater, turning to get her shoulder out, she very nearly got herself out and then I helped her a little with a push and suddenly she was on my chest, covered head to toe in vernix.

I tried to deliver the placenta naturally instead of taking the shot. You know, since I did the rest naturaly, right? wrong. 40 minutes later I'm like, give me the damn shot, I'm sick of laying here. Also had a first degree tear of my labia. OWWWW. I knew it was happening in the moment but I had NO control over the pushing. My body did it entirely without my assistance except for the last push to get her little body out. Anyway, they could have given me a stitch or two but while i was prepared to give birth without pain relief, I was most certainly not prepared to get stitched in my cooter without novocain or something for godssake! So we left it to heal naturally which it seems to be doing - it's already stopped stinging when I pee. Looks awful tho.

We're slowly figuring her out, or maybe she's training us. She sleeps much better on us than in her moses basket. Probaby setting ourselves up for trouble later but what can you do - gotta get some sleep! She's got a great latch so hopefully breastfeeding will go really well. But we're like, ummm okay, what else? I've read dozens of books and I'm still clueless. and tired.

yelnats Tue 24-Jul-07 23:29:36

BIG CONGRATULATIONS and well done on the no pain relief!!! You must be sooooo proud of yourself and your new little one!

alipigwidgeon Tue 24-Jul-07 23:30:29

Congratulations, wonderful story. And a huge welcome to the world to Isabella Coco. From a Brit Expat in Colorado.

Budababe Tue 24-Jul-07 23:32:12

Oh wow it all sounds so amazing.

Welcome Isabella - you keep your mummy and daddy on their toes sweetheart!

Myfairone Wed 25-Jul-07 01:09:29

Diva - Huge congratulations, you must be so proud to have had the birth you wanted...and with no pain relief...wow!

Just take your time to relax now and get to know your little one.

Thanks for the great birth story.

PrettyCandles Wed 25-Jul-07 07:00:56

That is a beautiful birth story. You 'made out' - is that what we Brits call 'having a snog'? - in labour! How cool is that!? Welcome to your little princess, and congratulations.

Enjoy the closeness - you've got plenty of time to change things if you choose to do so.

Cyee Wed 25-Jul-07 16:36:16

Congrats divaskychick - I'm in awe!

me23 Wed 25-Jul-07 16:40:35

beautiful birth story, congratualtions, well done

MelissaM Thu 26-Jul-07 13:25:26

Congratulations Diva. You star. Welcome to Isabella!

Chooster Thu 26-Jul-07 14:42:38

Wonderful birth story!!! What a star

lulumama Fri 27-Jul-07 09:19:00

that is a birth story worthy of being in an Ina May Gaskin book!!

see, i always say it is that sexy energy that got the baby in there and that will get it out too ! <<Ina May's words!!>>

I love the names, how absolutely gorgeous..and a good weight too...and at cooter !!!

very well done, what a joyful story !

lulu x

Leander Fri 27-Jul-07 09:31:29

what a beautiful birth story, well done you
welcome Isabella coco xx

Klaw Fri 27-Jul-07 14:58:01

Fabulous DivaSkyChick!

Congratulations

Enjoy your babymoon!

indiemummy Sat 28-Jul-07 11:06:47

Wow that's amazing! WELL DONE! See you over on the H&F board, enjoy it all xxx

pookey Sat 28-Jul-07 21:35:54

Congratulations sounds like a really lovely way for your daughter to enter the world ... amazing. App the waters staying intact is considered really special in some parts of the world

skirmish Sat 28-Jul-07 21:41:01

congratulations

well done to all of you

cadelaide Sat 28-Jul-07 21:41:48

congratulations, and what a lovely, lovely name.

theprecious Mon 30-Jul-07 09:43:56

congrats - sounds a great birth!

LizzieO Wed 15-Aug-07 17:27:54

Congratulations !!!!!!
Wow what a birth story, I have been reading these childbirth stories some good and some bad but this one is def the best i've ever read

well done and welcome to the world baby Isabella xxxxxxx

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