Hi
I hope you ladies can give me some advice. I’m 36 and have just found out I’m pregnant. Kids have always been a sort of notional idea for my husband and I rather than a reality. We never really dared take the plunge.
I ran out of the pill about 3 weeks ago and have literally had sex once in that time. I knew it was risky but threw caution to the wind. I literally did not think at 36 you could get pregnant in one go. Plus I’ve been on and off the pill for ten years.Anyway, once was enough! I’m now 5 weeks gone.
I suspected something was up as my period was late and I’ve been feeling rather sick. However, I said nothing to my hubster.
I was really sick at work earlier this week and I started to go from suspicion to just knowing that I was pregnant. My husband was away tonight so I did two tests and both immediately turned positive.
I’m really happy. There’s a long way to go but I’m delighted st least that I know I can get pregnant. But I need to tell my husband when he gets home tomorrow. I didn’t tell him that I’d runout of the pill or that I was worried. I wish I had but I really didn’t think I’d get pregnant Snd didn’t want to worry him unnecessarily. I think he will be ok but totally shocked. He’s not expecting this at all. I feel like I have really failed h by not just telling him when I suspected even more so for knowingly having unprotected sex.
Any advice most welcome. I’m going to tell him as soon as possible. Thank you 😊
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LaurG · 09/11/2017 23:49
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