NNOOOooo its not, what's the big deal?
Every time ive told people in pregnant its how far am I and if its the first grandchild.
My parents have my nephew off my brother and Dp's mother has grandchildren that she hasn't seen in years (his brothers ex stops him and his family from seeing them out of spite).
My parents are very excited having their daughter pregnant rather than their sons (now ex) girlfriend and my MIL is over the moon to get a grandchild who she can part of their life. I never thought that not having the first is something less special but everyone else seems to think so.
I've been trying for 2 years and went through IVF and this is my and partners first child and were very excited. I didn't give a shite about anyone else until now.
Will it be less special, less spoilt, less favoured than their first grandchildren?
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cherryontopp · 06/08/2017 22:23
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