...who died at christmas. Life is just so difficult wihtout her and I feel so many different emotions every day.
I dont know if its the fact that im coming close to the end or what but I seem to be going backwards. Ive started crying several times a day again - not just a few tears but really howling like an animal. I miss her so much and I just want to see her. Just 5 minutes with her, thats all I want just to cuddle her and talk to her. Ive got so much to tell her and its been so long since ive seen her I just want her back . Every night when i go to sleep I ask her to come and visit me but she hasnt. I dont know how Im going to go the rest of my life without her.Im 34 and have probably got quite a few years left. I cant stand missing her like this everyday. Its such an effort to even get out of bed and live everyday. Sometimes when driving I imagine just swerving and heading for the nearest tree.
I have so many things to share with her and I cant. And I dont give a shit if she can see me and is watching over me - its not fucking good enough - I want her here with me!!! I want her to know her grandchildren, and for them to know her. And I want here to look after me, to make everything alright , because when your mums here everything is ok . Im scared. Who will look after me . I need her.
I know I will miss her even more after the birth, as her not being here will be so obvious. Even now I find myself going to plan my day around her and then I remember....
Im worried that after the birth I will get pnd, which would really top my year off. I know its still early days but I thought as time goes on it is supposed to get easier , but as time goes on its harder - I miss her even more because its been so long since Ive seen her.
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plum100 · 05/05/2010 14:13
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