The thought has crossed my mind many times, but tbh I don't think I'll ever go through with it.
I have seen mediums before (pre losing C) and one of them in particular was very good and mentioned lots of specific things that were uncanny. However I'm still not totally convinced of their abilities, so for something that is so important and sacred to me, I won't see a medium about C. The thought of someone playing with my emotions is too much to bare tbh.
feedmenow - have exactly the same need (for a medium in South East) but was too embarrassed to post . I understand that many (possibly all?) are charletans but I really really need to try it for myself. I only want to do it once, so I want to go to the best I can find...
I live in an area that is teeming with mediums and spiritualist churches.
The spiritualist churches are Christian churches with hymns and prayers. Mediums often give private readings but there are open meetings every week.
I have been to a few of these and found them very friendly, full of kind people. But they can seem a bit ermmm ecentric?
I havent been to a private medium outside one of these places but loads of my friends have. Its quite usual round here (East London).
I had a private reading at a church and he was very accurate in some ways. He talked specifically about my grandparents but he did seem to be casting about later on when talking about my child.
I wasnt upset just a bit 'meh'
I get the feeling that these people really believe in what they are doing. They charge very little so I dont think its about money. I have never felt exploited or anything like it. I am sure it happens though, bereaved people are so vunerable.