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my best friend has lost her son [my godson]

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mrstimlovejoy · 26/04/2009 20:24

he was 17 and killed in a motorbike accident on friday.i've been with my friend and her dd who's the same age as mine [4] today and i feel so sad my heart aches to see what she's going through.for 12 years it was just the 2 of them and she's been a fab mum.i'm going to spend the day with her on tues just to help out with her dd,cleaning etc.no one should have to bury their children,life is so precious x

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Disenchanted3 · 26/04/2009 20:26

My thoughts are with her as are my prayers x

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YeahBut · 26/04/2009 20:27

Condolences to your friend and to you. Wishing you both strength and peace.

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bellavita · 26/04/2009 20:27

I am sorry

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Deemented · 26/04/2009 20:28

Oh that's awful. My condolences to you all.

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TheOldestCat · 26/04/2009 20:28

So very sorry for your friend and her family at this very sad time. You are being a true friend.

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bluebump · 26/04/2009 20:29

That's so sad I'm very sorry for your friend and you.

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mrstimlovejoy · 26/04/2009 20:31

thanks your all very kind,that's why i love mumsnet x

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herbietea · 26/04/2009 20:33

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FluffyBunnyGoneBad · 26/04/2009 20:33

I'm so sorry, how awful for you all.

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nickytwotimes · 26/04/2009 20:34

So sorry for you and your friend.
Tragic.

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cupofteaplease · 26/04/2009 20:37

That is terrible. Even worse in a way that the two of them were a team for so long- she must feel very lost

Wishing strength and comfort for both of you.

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shootfromthehip · 26/04/2009 20:37

How horribly, horribly sad. Much love at this very sad time.

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MuffinBaker · 26/04/2009 20:38

I am so sorry

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mollyroger · 26/04/2009 20:39

how terrible

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compo · 26/04/2009 20:39

I'm so sorry for you as well as for her xxx

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pottycock · 26/04/2009 20:40

How dreadfully sad.

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largeginandtonic · 26/04/2009 20:40

That is terrible

I hope you both pull together through this, you sound like a lovely friend.

My thoughts are with you.

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Winetimeisfinetime · 26/04/2009 20:41

That is so sad. I'm so sorry for your friend and her family and friends - it is every parent's nightmare to lose a child.

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JackBauer · 26/04/2009 21:14

DH is a biker. Am so sorry, how awful.

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evansmummy · 26/04/2009 21:44

So sorry for you both. You are doing the right thing helping with cleaning etc. She'll really need your support. My thoughts are with you xx

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ScummyMummy · 26/04/2009 21:46

How awful.

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mrstimlovejoy · 06/05/2009 20:28

hi sorry not posted for a while it's my godsons funeral tomorrow and i feel sick at the thought of having to see my best friend bury her son.i've been struggling since the weekend as my aunts had to go into loros we thought we were going to lose her at xmas but she's battled on and has been told it is only a matter of weeks now.i feel emotionally drained and so tired as i'm not sleeping very well.

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Splishysploshy · 06/05/2009 20:36

How very sad ~ I really feel for you. Take care and remember to look after yourself, sounds like a few people are going to need your support but don't forget yourself too.
My thoughts are with you x

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KerryMumbles · 06/05/2009 20:37

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noddyholder · 06/05/2009 20:37

So sorry that is very sad

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