Went to see a friend today, and we were talking about our children, and i said that i'd never have anymore. She said that i shouldn't be so hasty, that i don't know what the futures got in store, and that as i'm only 31, i've plenty of time to meet someone else and maybe have more children.
It got me to thinking. Hubbs has only been gone for 8 months, and at the moment, i can't imagine wanting to ever be with anyone else. He was the love of my life, and i miss him so. But then, we had talked about what might happen should he die, and he always said he never wanted me to be on my own for too long, that he wanted me to be happy and get on with my life.
I guess what i'm wondering is... how will i know when it's right for me to move on? Is there a time limit? I know i'll love and miss hubbs for the rest of my life... but what if one day i do want to be with someone else?
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Moving on?... just musing to myself..
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Deemented · 06/04/2009 17:58
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