We found out through rumours that one of our old foster placements may have died.
It all sounded really weird and wrong, so we started to believe that he had just gotten himself in a load of trouble and decided to "die" and start again.
Yesterday mum got a call from his mum - it is all true
There is no funeral to go to - it all happened abroad, the boy's own mum didn't get to bury her son.
Mum is just left with this feeling of a death but no way to say goodbye. She is worrying about not having done enough to help him over the years.
How can I help???
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Advice on helping my mum - a death with no closure
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Flamesparrow · 22/02/2009 11:35
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