DHs grandad passed away and his funeral is tomorrow.
I am due a baby anytime now and have 2 year old and 4 year old, been having pains but they don't seem to mean much!
My mum would usually watch my sons but MY grandad has cancer and is at Christies hospital tomorrow getting the results from his full body scan to see if his cancer has spread.
My mum obviously wants to be with him, but is talking about 'leaving early to get here to mind the boys' etc...
I don't want her to be doing that.
The only ohter family on my side have their own kids (my sister) and i don't want her minding all 3 of them alone.
ButI loved DHs grandad and I don't want to be seen as uncaring.
Plus Ive only ever been to 1 funeral before, of some one i wasn't close to and that was upsetting enough.
Everytime I think of the coffin I cry, Im not sure if Im up to it... but then noone likes funerals do they, i have an obligation to be there.
I'm really confused
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DisenchantedPlusBump · 18/12/2008 11:28
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