Lovely mil died of cancer a year ago.
Ds1 is a sensitive wee soul anyway. Now he won't sleep alone - same room ot even good enough - has to sleep in same bed as bro. If he's in the dark, he starts crying and says he has 'bad thoughts' (about one of his family getting sick or dying). I was just putting baby into bed. Though we were having a nice intimate snuggly time and suddenly he's in floods of tears.
I don't know how to help him get over this. He seems to be getting worse gardually, like he's building up more and more in his head. They all have their own room. He hasn't been sleeping with brother all the time the whole year, but now he HAS to.
I don't want him to carry on building it up and making himself worse and worse and developing full on phobias or something. How on earth do you deal with it?
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ds aged 9 not coping well 1 year after granny died
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ErnestTheBavarian · 27/10/2008 18:39
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