My mother died earlier in the week and I'm wondering should I ask family and friends to be bearers? Do people still do this, maybe walk alongside the coffin or leave it to the undertakers?
(Our funeral director is an old family friend and about 106 so don't want to bother him tonight. I will ask tomorrow but will worry all night.)
I don't really know what I'm doing, I'm in that auto-pilot thing, though have been dreadfully upset today.
By the way, she was 90, really pooorly and ready to go and I thought I was ready to let her. It seems I was wrong.
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Bearers, is this still the custom?
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Earthymama · 27/09/2008 20:12
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