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Don't know where to put this but feeling gutted

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Charlee Fri 08-Aug-08 10:05:02

5yrs ago my partner and i got attacked whilei was pregnant with twins, i lost the babies.
The boy who did this used to be one of my best friends.
Today i have found out his grildfriend has just given birth to his baby.

Its so unfair, i don't see why he shoudl have tohe joys of a beautiful baby girl when he so cruely robbed my of 2 children. sad

I don't post on here alot these days so feel a bit funny posting this but i needed to vent and this seemed liek a good place.

PinkButterfly Fri 08-Aug-08 10:11:42

So sorry Charlee. Life really can be so cruel sometimes. x

StealthPolarBear Fri 08-Aug-08 10:13:05

That's so horrible, I can imagine why this would bring back memories and seem so unfair.
I hope his gf's pregnancy is stirring up some guilt for him.
Did he go to prison?

CissyCharlton Fri 08-Aug-08 10:13:59

If he has even the smallest conscience, the things he did to you will have come flooding back tenfold as soon as that baby was born. He has to live with this for the rest of his life. He'll never be truly as peace with himself.

JRocks Fri 08-Aug-08 10:14:27

Sorry to read this, it's understandable that this feels incredibly unfair.

QueenyEisGotTheBall Fri 08-Aug-08 10:17:52

im so sorry this happened to yousad did he get punished for what he did to you?
it is so unfairsad
xx ei xx

ImnotMamaGbutsheLovesMe Fri 08-Aug-08 10:18:03

I am so sorry for your loss sad and for having to hear about this now.

Did he know he caused you to lose your babies?

sparklesandnowinefor12weeks Fri 08-Aug-08 10:21:12


i'm very sorry to hear what happened to you x

Charlee Fri 08-Aug-08 10:29:12

No he didn't go to prison, he was only 16 at the time and i was only 11 weeks pregnant, He did know what he had done but panicked and denied it. We pressed chages as he has asulted me and my other half but it never even got to court.

I have been fine for ages but hearing this has just stirred it all up again, i hope hes feeling really guily about what he did.

I am luck enough to have 2 gorgeous boys now but i still think about my babies, what they would have looked like ect.

ImnotMamaGbutsheLovesMe Fri 08-Aug-08 10:51:13

And you probably always will.

I often wonder what it would have been like if my son's twin had survived, as well as the single baby I lost.

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