My dad passed away Friday afternoon.
He had lung cancer, the death was horrific.
Me my brother and my sister were with him the whole time.
He begged to help him breathe, almost standing up, desperate for breath. He clung onto mybrother begging.
We could do nothing. My sister had his head in her arms. She looked into his eyes and told him to let go dad, its ok let go. You go to mum now, she is waiting.
We were all crying uncontrolably desperate to help him, but there was nothing we could do.
Through the six months of dad having lung cancer, we promised, the nurses and the doctors promised he would not choke to death and then he did.
I am sorry if this is all to much. I need to write what has happened. I spent the whole day in bed yesterday, i did not want to do anything. Today i am so numb, i cant quite beleve it actually happened.
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homecomfort · 07/07/2008 11:45
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