they ahd been through many a bad patch, he must have been in, if not almost into his 70's, she shared christmas with us last year as theyd had a big fall out.
same this year, they argued over something quite minor, but obv important in their lives and she told he she wanted out and that was it, the following day all was fine, but the next day while she was at my mums, he walked into the north sea and despite people trying to save him, he died.
am sad for family and wife, but so sad for him, especially at this age to feel that was all he had left.
tried to buy a sympathy card yesterday but it was all 'loss of a loved one' and talking about all the love they had, now i know she 'reall'y did love him, but seems innapropriate to rub salt into wounds as we know it was bad between them before he died.
IN end got one saying nothing but thinking of you.
God, just feel so sad and upset although i wasnt that close to her dh, i was with her and cant imagine how she must be feeling knowing how theyd left it between them
what can i / mum do to help?
mum has rang but she jsut couldnt stop crying so mum said shed call her again and to ring if she needed anything?
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SweetSnowflake · 04/12/2007 10:51
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