I will try to keep this brief.....
My friend lost her brother 3y years ago,he had cancer and it was long and drawn out at the end.he lived his last months with my friend so her daughter aged about 4 at the time saw it all.She also then saw the impact it had on her Mum and Nanny/Grandad.
18mts later,her Mum had a stillborn little girl.They allowed their daughter os see her so she had a sense of closure but again she had to witnedd the grief her parents went through though of course they treid to shield her as much as possible.
My friend has now given birth a few weeks ago to a beautiful baby girl after a hazardous pregnancy.
Anyway,her daughter seems to be really struggling with death and loss.SHe has reall attachemnt issues and whilst she won't talk to her parents,various things have dropped in conversations.She never wants to stay at her nanny and Grandad's any more,for fear of what mey happen to her Mum walking back.She was petrified on firework night that her Dad was going to be injured/killed by a firework.
I just think this poor little girl has been through so much and because she has appeared to have coped it has has come to a head.
She seems to blame herself for everything and because she is such a sensitive,caring child that it is heartbreaking.
Anybody got any idea at all how we can try to help this lovely little girl.
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Whooosh · 05/11/2007 11:42
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