I'm really struggling at the moment seeing adverts for the census. When we moved into our house we were a family of 5 and the first census we completed there was a couple of months after we moved in. The last census, my stepsons had left home (they are in their 30s now) so we were a family of 3. Now this census will just be me and DS, and DH will be erased from the public record. It feels like I'm losing him again because while he exists on the current census data, there is a record of him living with me in our house. From March the official record will not include him and it is really upsetting me.
Maybe I'm just a bit odd to be worrying about this because nobody I have spoken to about it in real life really understands. It is like the only place he still is alive is in the census record now. I don't know if that makes sense to anyone though, I know he's dead, I'm not in denial about that. I really wish I didn't have to fill it in though.
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VienneseWhirligig · 21/02/2021 21:13
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