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Needschoolhelp Wed 13-Jan-21 18:34:53

My son passed away suddenly on Saturday morning. I woke up to find him dead having put him back to sleep in my bed 4 hours previously. I am absolutely devastated I just don't know what to do. I also have a dh and 3 other children.

The whole process has been awful with police involvement etc and I feel like I am drowning. Everyone around me is saying that it is SIDS.

My son had a post mortem this morning which came back as unasertainable (unexplained) but we're still waiting on the procurator fiscal releasing his body so we can start arrangements. It feels like every day there is something else standing in our way. I haven't held my son since he passed away on Saturday and I am just desperate to see him. The police have been hopeless I've had to chase them for even the tiniest bit of information.

Don't really know the reason for my posting just needed an outlet to vent as I can't do it at home. I just want to curl up and go to sleep but I have 3 other children but I miss my little baby so much he was only 12 weeks old. X

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cushioncovers Wed 13-Jan-21 18:36:37

I'm so so sorry for your loss.

flapjackfairy Wed 13-Jan-21 18:38:27

Oh I am so v sorry for you loss. There are no words to help.i know but sending love xxx

Topseyt Wed 13-Jan-21 18:38:45

I’m so very sorry to hear about this.

I’ve no advice, but I hope that you get some information soon and are able to see him/begin arrangements etc.

CompleteBarstool Wed 13-Jan-21 18:39:45

I'm so sorry for your loss

Do you have support from any family or friends at the moment?

Amdone123 Wed 13-Jan-21 18:40:08

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you love and strength x

Imonlydoingwhatican Wed 13-Jan-21 18:41:01

Im so very sorry. flowers

Needschoolhelp Wed 13-Jan-21 18:42:03

Yes thankfully I have family and friends but it's not enough. It's not my son. I miss him terribly 😭

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icelollycraving Wed 13-Jan-21 18:42:35

So sorry for your loss. Your pain must be indescribable, sending you strength and support.

whataballbag Wed 13-Jan-21 18:43:33

I am so so sorry. I can't even begin to imagine the pain you must be feeling.

Would it help if you told us about him?

CheshireCats Wed 13-Jan-21 18:44:31

I am so very sorry for your loss. Words are not enough... Sending you love x

TipseyTorvey Wed 13-Jan-21 18:45:21

I can't begin to imagine the level of pain you must be in. I am so sorry for your loss and what you, and your family are going through. Do you have any idea when you'll get to hold him to say goodbye? It seems cruel beyond measure that this is being held up. I hope you get to see him soon.

sabrinathemiddleagewitch Wed 13-Jan-21 18:45:32

I'm so sorry for your loss. There is nothing I can say to make this better.
Would you like to tell us about him? What you love about him?

bloodywhitecat Wed 13-Jan-21 18:46:08

I am so sorry flowers, would you like to tell us a little about your precious son?

TopBants Wed 13-Jan-21 18:46:17

Oh, OP, I am so sorry. Words aren't enough, I know.


reallyisthisallthereis Wed 13-Jan-21 18:46:42

I'm so very sorry. There just aren't any right words for this.
If you want to talk about him, please tell us about your son.

littlepattilou Wed 13-Jan-21 18:46:50

@Needschoolhelp Oh wow. I am so sorry. That's awful. I don't know what to say. sad

When's his funeral?

Yorensnow Wed 13-Jan-21 18:47:01

I am so very Op thanks

ChelseaCat Wed 13-Jan-21 18:47:13

I’m so very sorry for your loss flowers

ChrissyHynde Wed 13-Jan-21 18:47:30

So sorry for you and your family

Mamette Wed 13-Jan-21 18:47:36

I am so sorry OP flowers

littlepattilou Wed 13-Jan-21 18:47:52

As has been said, keep talking on here if it makes you feel a bit better.

RandomMess Wed 13-Jan-21 18:48:24

Huge hugs what is his name?

Jaichangecentfoisdenom Wed 13-Jan-21 18:48:45

Oh, my dear heart. You poor thing. Your poor dear little boy. Yes, please, tell us about him, if you feel up to it. May he rest in peace.

Amiable Wed 13-Jan-21 18:48:47

So very sorry for your loss. Sending love and strength xx

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