My best friend who was a total rock through my miscarriage even more than most of my family has just told me she is pregnant and she wanted me to be the first to know. I know it was difficult for her to tell me but i felt fine. People think i should be upset but i can't be. She will be a fantastic mum and her partner a great dad, it is what they wanted and I am really pleased for them. I don't want what happened to me to to cast a shadow on their celebrations and have spoken about this to my friend she is a true friend and having taken the time to be there for me knows I am happy for her...... But what I am feeling is that mutual friends are not acknolowdging her pregnancy to me and seem to be trying to shield it from me to save my feelings. They think I am being flase when I say I'm pleased for her,
Is this normal??? Will people treat me like a I have a problem with pregnant people for ever???
Just want to be treated normal and regardless what people think I am looking forward to being Aunti Di and having babysitting duties. I love my friend and her partner and wish them every happiness.
Hope some of you have felt like this and have some advice.
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Dyzzidi · 22/10/2004 12:02
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