hi i had a miscarriage 13 weeks ago was 11weeks+5. was devastated and still am. didnt get offered any sort of support after it happened.
started bleeding on the sunday and went straight to hospital which is 3 mins away. told me they "thought" it was a threatened miscarriage. booked me in for emergency scan 4 days later.
by lunch time on the monday i was in agony...what felt like contractions. walked to hospital and just as i got there i lost loadsa blood. they examined me internally and said they still werent sure if it was a mc even though i had started to pass clots.
sent me home. 2 hours later i passed the baby. went back to hospital and apparently my blood pressure was really low.
had to go for scan 2 days later to make sure!
sorry for my rambling but i cant get over it. took me nearly a month to let my husband near me and was feeling awful. went to doctors and ended up being dianosed with depression. hubby and i are trying again but i feel like im trying to replace the little one we lost even though that certainly aint the case.
still totally devastated bout loosing the baby cos i have had one successful pregnancy before think i was naive a bit and didnt think it would happen to me. still cant get the image of the baby out my head.
any suggestions on what i can do to make myself come to terms with it and try and move on. also i have hardly cried over it cos i feel like i will never stop if i do
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franfoxy2003 · 04/10/2007 22:35
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