Hello all
(sorry, originally posted this on another hread, think it was the wrong place)
Am feeling rather up and down as I had a silent miscarriage at 8 weeks last week. Had the medical treatment and it was rather horrible but fortunately have been told all is OK now. Feel physically OK, but am now feeling very anxious. It is really weird. There are two main problems at the moment.
One has been that people don't seem to have been aware that we might have been trying for a baby as I am not married - and have been saying things like oh well if it wasn't planned it won't matter so much, and the family won't mind if you aren't married. This is really hurtful as it was definitely planned, me and my partner have been together for 8 years and I am 35 (he is 37)so need to get on with it, and in any case the reason why we are not married is a definite decision and noone elses business.
Secondly, I am worried that I have something awful wrong and will never be able to get pregnant again. I know this is normal to have these anxieties, but I am worried, esp because of my age. When will I ovulate? How soon can I try again?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Find bereavement help and support from other Mumsnetters.
Bereavement
Upsetting reactions
8 replies
mags98 · 30/08/2007 23:22
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.