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Oh my god ... Help me please I don't know what to do!!!

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Mummy2TandF · 29/08/2007 09:48

my dh went fishing last night and at 11:30pm I had a knock on the door from the police .... My dh has been found dead on a footpath at the lake They think it was a massive heart attack, a stroke or a blood clot but will do a PM tomorrow, I don't know what to do, I have my family here with me but it is easier to talk on here How do I tell my dc's? WHAT do I tell my dc's - they are only 2.9 and 10 months Will they understand, what are they going to do without their daddy? How will I get through the days without my dh? I know we argued etc but I really, really, loved him and now he is gone Help please

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ledodgy · 29/08/2007 09:49

OMG I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say just that i'm here.

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TheArmadillo · 29/08/2007 09:50

Oh sweetheart I am so sorry

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WaynettaSlob · 29/08/2007 09:50

Oh God - how awful - so so sorry for your loss.

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chopster · 29/08/2007 09:50

I am so sorry

I don't have any advice, but wish you strength for you and your children.

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TigerFeet · 29/08/2007 09:50

Oh god, what a shock for you

So sorry

Glad you have someone with you in RL

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thomcat · 29/08/2007 09:51

oh my God, how shocking. You poor poor thing. Do you have freinds and family on their way over to you to be there with you?

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LilRedWG · 29/08/2007 09:51

I am so sorry

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KezzaG · 29/08/2007 09:51

Oh you poor thing. We met at the Mile for Maude in Romford, I just couldnt read this and not offer you my heartfelt condolences. you must be in total shock. I just dont know what else to say.....so so sorry for you.

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expatinscotland · 29/08/2007 09:51

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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LucyJones · 29/08/2007 09:51

omg, I'm so sorry.
I have chatted to you before on Mumsnet over the years.
I imagine you are still in shock. Yorkiegirl might be able to help with practcial advice.

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fawkeoff · 29/08/2007 09:51

OMG i am so sorry for you sweetheart i really dont know what to say to you as it is so fresh just know that im thinking of you x x

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thomcat · 29/08/2007 09:52

Whoops, sorry, just read that your family are there with you. Glad about that. Just so sorry about everything else

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flowerybeanbag · 29/08/2007 09:52

So sorry m2t&f, you must be in complete shock. Thinking of you and your beautiful DCs, glad you have family with you, lean on them and us.

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RubySlippers · 29/08/2007 09:52

i am so sorry for your loss
don't be on your own - rally your friends and family round you
get someone to call your GP to let him know don't tell your children anything this minute

you have so many questions right now, but don't think about anything other than getting through the next minute or two

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Mummy2TandF · 29/08/2007 09:52

Got to go back downstairs now before they all get worried but will come back later to my mn friends

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lissie · 29/08/2007 09:53

oh god, im so so sorry, thinking of you and your family x

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MrsMills · 29/08/2007 09:53

Such terrible news, so, so sorry.

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WaynettaSlob · 29/08/2007 09:54

We're all here whenever you need to come back and chat.

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peanutbear · 29/08/2007 09:54

my heart goes out to you I'm very sorry for your loss

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onlyWotz · 29/08/2007 09:54

You will find a huge amount of support on here and in RL.
You are still in shock ATM.
I am truely sorry for your sudden loss.

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southeastastra · 29/08/2007 09:54

how tragic, so so sorry for you and your children

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marthamoo · 29/08/2007 09:57

I am so sorry - you must be completely in shock. Let your family and friends rally round to help and just take it one day at a time - that's the only "advice" I can offer, really. Thinking of you.

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bozza · 29/08/2007 09:57

So sorry to hear this. I am sure that people here will help you as much as they can. Poor you and your children.

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random · 29/08/2007 09:57

so sorry thinking of you and your children

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callmeovercautious · 29/08/2007 09:57

So sorry - what a terrible shock. {{{{HUGS}}}}

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