Oh my god ... Help me please I don't know what to do!!!

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Mummy2TandF Wed 29-Aug-07 09:48:32

my dh went fishing last night and at 11:30pm I had a knock on the door from the police .... My dh has been found dead on a footpath at the lake sad They think it was a massive heart attack, a stroke or a blood clot but will do a PM tomorrow, I don't know what to do, I have my family here with me but it is easier to talk on here sad How do I tell my dc's? WHAT do I tell my dc's - they are only 2.9 and 10 months sad Will they understand, what are they going to do without their daddy? How will I get through the days without my dh? I know we argued etc but I really, really, loved him and now he is gone sad Help please

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ledodgy Wed 29-Aug-07 09:49:21

OMG I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say just that i'm here.

TheArmadillo Wed 29-Aug-07 09:50:08

Oh sweetheart I am so sorry sad

WaynettaSlob Wed 29-Aug-07 09:50:41

Oh God - how awful - so so sorry for your loss. sad

chopster Wed 29-Aug-07 09:50:46

I am so sorry sad

I don't have any advice, but wish you strength for you and your children. sad

TigerFeet Wed 29-Aug-07 09:50:53

Oh god, what a shock for you

So sorry

Glad you have someone with you in RL

thomcat Wed 29-Aug-07 09:51:10

oh my God, how shocking. You poor poor thing. Do you have freinds and family on their way over to you to be there with you?

KezzaG Wed 29-Aug-07 09:51:32

Oh you poor thing. We met at the Mile for Maude in Romford, I just couldnt read this and not offer you my heartfelt condolences. you must be in total shock. I just dont know what else to say.....so so sorry for you.

LilRedWG Wed 29-Aug-07 09:51:32

I am so sorry

expatinscotland Wed 29-Aug-07 09:51:34

I'm so sorry for your loss. sad

LucyJones Wed 29-Aug-07 09:51:37

omg, I'm so sorry.
I have chatted to you before on Mumsnet over the years.
I imagine you are still in shock. Yorkiegirl might be able to help with practcial advice.

fawkeoff Wed 29-Aug-07 09:51:59

OMG i am so sorry for you sweetheart i really dont know what to say to you as it is so fresh just know that im thinking of you x x

thomcat Wed 29-Aug-07 09:52:05

Whoops, sorry, just read that your family are there with you. Glad about that. Just so sorry about everything else sad

flowerybeanbag Wed 29-Aug-07 09:52:31

So sorry m2t&f, you must be in complete shock. Thinking of you and your beautiful DCs, glad you have family with you, lean on them and us.

RubySlippers Wed 29-Aug-07 09:52:37

i am so sorry for your loss
don't be on your own - rally your friends and family round you
get someone to call your GP to let him know don't tell your children anything this minute

you have so many questions right now, but don't think about anything other than getting through the next minute or two

Mummy2TandF Wed 29-Aug-07 09:52:39

Got to go back downstairs now before they all get worried but will come back later to my mn friends

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lissie Wed 29-Aug-07 09:53:16

oh god, im so so sorry, thinking of you and your family x

MrsMills Wed 29-Aug-07 09:53:17

Such terrible news, so, so sorry.

WaynettaSlob Wed 29-Aug-07 09:54:04

We're all here whenever you need to come back and chat.

peanutbear Wed 29-Aug-07 09:54:43

sad my heart goes out to you I'm very sorry for your loss

onlyWotz Wed 29-Aug-07 09:54:53

You will find a huge amount of support on here and in RL.
You are still in shock ATM.
I am truely sorry for your sudden loss.

southeastastra Wed 29-Aug-07 09:54:55

how tragic, so so sorry for you and your children

marthamoo Wed 29-Aug-07 09:57:09

I am so sorry - you must be completely in shock. Let your family and friends rally round to help and just take it one day at a time - that's the only "advice" I can offer, really. Thinking of you.

bozza Wed 29-Aug-07 09:57:12

So sorry to hear this. I am sure that people here will help you as much as they can. Poor you and your children. sad

random Wed 29-Aug-07 09:57:33

so sorrysad thinking of you and your children

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