I think it's about time that I've really start to talk about this.
I lost my wife just over 2 years ago she left behind 3 children age 5,8 and 12. I'm 30 years old so really should have my whole life to look forward to but I'm really struggling. I miss her greatly and she's always on my mind.
Ok I just get my problem out this will be about myself my children are getting support from school and sorry if it's all over the place. I was angry when she went I couldn't hold my temper very well mainly toward my mum and dad and people at work although this has got a lot better I still have the odd rage. I still have a few drinks each night which I would love to stop or at least cut down! I don't get to the point off being out my face unless the kids are at the grandparents which I always regret the morning after. I struggle to sleep in bed as this just brings back so many memories nighttime is the worse time for me so most nights I'm downstairs with a few beers and it's pretty much where I spend my night.
I have been offered helped in the past but I've always refused it as I thought I could deal with it but I'm at the stage where life isn't moving forward for me. Sex life is 0 but there is a nice woman at work which we have been flirting with recently but she's 12 years older than me. I can't see us spending our life's together but right now I think I'd jump into bed with anyone!!
If anyone has been through the same how did you deal with it?
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Downhillrider · 10/03/2019 23:14
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