I've been trying to cope for the loss of my daughter for the last 8months. I have lost her due to a chromosome disorder and big hole in her heart. I have a 3 years old son who keeps reminiscing the times I have her (Mary) on my womb. My son is trying to make sense of what had happened to Mary. He knew that Mary is up in heaven and not leaving with us because she is too unwell to stay. He is trying to put a face to his sister when we were shopping one day telling me that the baby on the picture was Mary. He was also upset when I accidentally put his cup on top of the paper as I would ruin Mary's face. I'm trying to make sense out of whats going on with his little mind. The thing that strikes me the most is when he woke up this morning he wanted me to pray to God that Mary will get better so she can come back to us. Has anyone have any experience of these happening to them. I'm just heart broken all the time. I don't know what else to Do.
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