At 5:45pm this day last year my wonderful sister died. Just us two sisters.
It was 9 weeks after she was first diagnosed with bone cancer in her right thigh bone, out of the blue. It had a great prognosis. She had the operation, thigh bone replaced with titanium rod, hip replaced. She never got to go home as her breathing started to go 3 weeks post op. It turned out to be shockingly aggressive cancer and wiped out her lungs, even her consultant was taken by surprise. She was given 3-6 months, she & I thought hey she's so tough and fighting fit, she'll be 1-2 years & I eas desperately arranging CHC, oxygen and hospital bed & care support (tho mum and me would do most of day and night care) for her to come down to spend her last months at my house overlooking garden surrounded by my DC and DParents (who'd stay with me). But she died 2 weeks 2 days later in a hospice she barely made the journey to. I am devastated still to lose her and so unexlectregly and gutted for her. I've barely kept it together the last year and today is the tsunami of grief all over again. Had my earphones in listening to Ella Henderson all day in the office to keep me going.
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Whereismumhiding2 · 02/07/2018 19:27
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