Two weeks ago my MIL quite suddenly passed away. My DH the last 5 days has not got up from bed or left the house. I have been trying to force him to get out of bed but he thinks I'm just being horrible and forcing him to do things he doesn't want to do. I've been trying to tempt him up with different things ie it's a nice day a walk might help clear your head or we need to check on his dad (who is now alone) he just refuses to get up. He won't even get up to let me change the bed sheets. Ive to bring him his breakfast lunch and dinner to bed he is sleeping 75% of the time. I'm just really worried about him I know he's grieving and I can't even begin to understand how awful this is for him. But am I doing the right thing by trying to get him up and about or am being awful and should just leave him be? I know he needs to grieve and I feel so sorry for him but I really don't know what to do for the best to help him I feel if I leave him to it he's just going to stay there and never get up. Any advice would be appreciated!
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