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My DH has died in a car crash today.

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Iwant2move · 01/12/2017 00:23

Is anyone up?

I can’t sleep.

My husband was killed in a car crash today.

We’d just moved house and he was so happy.

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screamativemom · 01/12/2017 00:24

I'm so sorry, sending hugs xxxx

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Quittingthyme · 01/12/2017 00:24

So sorry for your loss. Flowers

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LazyDoll · 01/12/2017 00:25

ThanksThanksThanks

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thetigerthatcamefortea · 01/12/2017 00:26

Oh my goodness.
I am so so sorry. You must be totally shell shocked. Have you got people with you?
I have nothing at all to say that would be of any comfort.
Flowers

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Finola1step · 01/12/2017 00:26

FlowersI'm so, so sorry.

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WorkingItOutAsIGo · 01/12/2017 00:26

I am so sorry. Sending you love and hugs.

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Katrose · 01/12/2017 00:26

Oh Move 😔😔😔

I'm so sorry to hear this. Would it help you to tell us about him?

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CuppaTeaAndAJammieDodger · 01/12/2017 00:26

Oh love, I’m so incredibly sorry. Do you have someone with you?

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HottySnanky · 01/12/2017 00:26

So, so sorry for your loss. Holding your hand. Sending you hugs.
Flowers

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HunterCatsSlave · 01/12/2017 00:26

I want to move, I am so sorry to read that. How awful.

I'm not surprised you can't sleep.

Have you anyone with you? Anyone you can call? No one should have an issue with you needing company on such a night.

People often seem to get comfort on here by sharing stuff about their loved one...noting specific, anything at all that comes form you brain to your fingertips.

Flowers

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Dancinggoat · 01/12/2017 00:27

I'm so sorryThanks

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Iwant2move · 01/12/2017 00:27

Thank you.

The police have his phone. I’ve managed to contact a few of his friends but I don’t have access to all his contacts until I get his phone.

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GallicosCats · 01/12/2017 00:28

I am so sorry for your loss.Flowers This is a truly horrible and shocking way to lose a loved one. Hoping others will be along shortly to express their condolences less clumsily than me.

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PaperdollCartoon · 01/12/2017 00:28

I’m so sorry. You need a cuppa Brew

You must be feeling utterly bereft, but it sounds like you know he was happy and feeling good about life. Better than to go with sadness around him.

What do you need?

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furlinedsheepskinjacket · 01/12/2017 00:28

oh no that's such sad news - sending a hug xx

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Iwant2move · 01/12/2017 00:28

My 22 year old son is with me. My other children are away at university.

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karmacoma1 · 01/12/2017 00:29

Oh my goodness.

I am so sorry. Flowers

Is there someone you can call to be with you?

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PaperdollCartoon · 01/12/2017 00:29

Is he their father?

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HitManHitMan · 01/12/2017 00:29

What a shock for you. Deep condolences. Flowers

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MsHarveySpecter · 01/12/2017 00:30

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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PaperdollCartoon · 01/12/2017 00:30

Are there any friends or family who can be with you?

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LockedOutOfMN · 01/12/2017 00:30

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I am praying for you and send you love.

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WellThisIsShit · 01/12/2017 00:30

Oh my dear, I am so so sorry. How awful and shocking. I’m so sorry.

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Iwant2move · 01/12/2017 00:31

I don’t know what I need.
I don’t want to upset my son any more than he is already. I just need to break down and I don’t want to put him under stress than he already is. I know he will try to be strong for me but it’s too much for him.

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MadisonAvenue · 01/12/2017 00:31

I'm so sorry, my thoughts are with you Flowers

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