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Miami81 Wed 27-Sep-17 06:23:53

That's it really. Heading to hospital this morning to have my baby girl induced. Her heartbeat stopped somewhere between Sunday night and Monday morning at 27 weeks and I just can't bear it. She was our joy and our sunshine after two miscarriages and now I have to say goodbye to her today and I just don't know where I am going to find the strength.

BanyanTree Wed 27-Sep-17 06:30:01

I'm so, so sorry. Hopefully someone will be along in a minute with more helpful words who knows more about what you are going through. Just want to send you a hand hold and hugs.


Mum2OneTeen Wed 27-Sep-17 06:31:23

I'm so sorry for your loss flowersflowersflowers

user1499786242 Wed 27-Sep-17 06:32:10

I am so so sorry! flowers

Roystonv Wed 27-Sep-17 06:32:33

Bless you, wishing you love and strength to get through this horrible time.

sofato5miles Wed 27-Sep-17 06:32:42

What an utterly devastating and heartbreaking loss. My heart goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through today and, not that a stranger can help, but I will light a candle for your darling baby girl.

BikeRunSki Wed 27-Sep-17 06:33:55

I'm so sorry. flowers

ICJump Wed 27-Sep-17 06:36:29

I'm so sorry. Will you have access to a cuddle cot afterward the birth? So you can spend some time with her.

Miami81 Wed 27-Sep-17 06:38:58

Yes ic there will be a cuddle cot and a memory box and we have some stuff packed for her. It just all feels so surreal. Thanks for the kind words and thoughts.

LoyaltyAndLobster Wed 27-Sep-17 06:40:04


Godotsarrived Wed 27-Sep-17 06:41:10

There are no words. I am so sorry for your loss. Utterly wretched for you. I hope you can take comfort from knowing how much your little daughter was wanted and loved. Strength to you flowers

Ohb0llocks Wed 27-Sep-17 06:42:52

So so sorry ❤️❤️❤️❤️

HopeAndJoy16 Wed 27-Sep-17 06:43:49

Sending you lots of love ❤️ I'm so, so sorry you have lost your precious little girl. Life is so unfair xxxx

Eminado Wed 27-Sep-17 06:44:59

I am so sorry this is happening flowers

RoryItsSnowing Wed 27-Sep-17 06:45:08

I'm so, so sorry. I hope they let you spend as long as possible with her to create memories and photos of your beautiful girl flowersflowersflowers

pumpkin321 Wed 27-Sep-17 06:45:49

So so sorry sweetheart, sending you lots of love and strength. Xxx

ICJump Wed 27-Sep-17 06:47:27

That is good there is a cuddle cot. It must be very surreal for you.

TiesThatBindMe Wed 27-Sep-17 06:48:44

Oh God help you. What an utterly unbearable loss. I'm so sorry. Similar happened to my cousin though I think she was further on and I cried my eyes out as it was her first pregnancy and first baby. I don't think I could cope at all. My cousin now has 4 more children and seems to be relatively happy. Nobody mentions her first baby really because we're afraid of upsetting her by bringing it up or mentioning her. Their baby is buried beside our grandmother and wrapped in my grandmother's shawl. I know they go to her grave often. It's so tragic.

sandgrown Wed 27-Sep-17 06:50:13

So sorry to hear this . Wishing you strength to get through this dark time flowers

Theworldisfullofidiots Wed 27-Sep-17 06:51:22

I'm so sorry. It must be terrible. flowers

mynameisnotmichaelcaine Wed 27-Sep-17 06:53:29

I'm so so sorry you lost her beautiful baby girl. What is her name? Sending love and strength.

bumblebee77 Wed 27-Sep-17 06:58:53

I'm so, so sorry for your loss. There are no words really.

Miami81 Wed 27-Sep-17 07:00:37

We are thinking of calling her Eilidh Nora but we are going to wait and see her to make it definite.

namechanger2735 Wed 27-Sep-17 07:01:11

My heart breaks to read this. What a horrible thing to happen to you and your family. But you especially. Will be thinking of you today, and probably for a long while after.
Thinking of your angelflowers

mynameisnotmichaelcaine Wed 27-Sep-17 07:03:44

That's beautiful. Thoughts are with you and your family. It is going to be an extremely dark time. I know family and friends who have been through the same experience found the charity SANDS to be a huge support.

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