DDad died suddenly 2 weeks ago (complications of surgery followed by 3 horrendous days in ICU until they confirmed no brain activity). He was a fit and active 71 year old. We are all shell shocked
I'm supporting my DM who is in bits - I did a lot of the funeral planning and now am helping with all the admin. I haven't had time to react much myself.
Except I can't sleep. Or at least I can't bring myself to go to bed, because I know that if I struggle to sleep I'll start thinking about the last few minutes (some reflex stuff that gave me a dreadful fright).
So I'm sitting up watching trash on Netflix or reading. And then when I eventually go to bed, I can't get up in the morning or I go through the day like a zombie (which isn't much help to DM, and means I'm ratty with DH and DC).
DH can't handle medical conversations so I can't really talk to him about it. And I'm being DM's support so can't talk to her.
So I have to carry on not sleeping.
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vvviola · 19/05/2017 00:27
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