Sorry if this sounds blunt or selfish, but I haven't really processed this yet.
Just wondering if anyone can offer advice or support about how to cope with the waiting and wondering if someone close to them is very likely to die soon?
My dad has COPD and has lived with the condition for some time. Last night he was admitted to hospital and he has told us that unless they can clear his lungs, which is unlikely at his stage/age, then all they can do is make him comfortable :(
While my dad is what would be considered a "reasonable" age to move on, I do not feel ready to lose him (I'm 23). Not saying that makes it easier or harder but I've never experienced the death of someone close to me before, so I feel so lost and unable to, well feel anything. I can cry if I talk about it but I feel numb inside. Sorry, I'm rambling.
My question I guess is, does anyone have any advice about how to deal with the coming days, both practically ad emotionally? I have to tell work on Monday that I may have to rush off at a moment's notice if I get the phone call. I have never been to a funeral before and I am terrified. I have a young DD to look after and we are supposed to be TTC. I am intensley worried about how my mum will cope. I guess I'm also really posting because I'm not ready to tell/talk to anyone about this and I thought I might find some comfort in shared support. Thank you for reading
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EvieSparkles0x · 28/01/2017 19:58
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