She is 11. We knew it was nearly time so MIL, SIL, my DD and I were there (with our dog who he loved to bits) and he chose that time to let go. He was 97.
DD is understandably upset but I'm wandering if her being there with him will have any potential repercussions that I need to be on the lookout for.
I might well be over thinking this of course and need to relax.
We've told her how comforting it hopefully was for GGdad to be surrounded by so many people who loved him and how extra special that the last face he saw was hers.
Although he was DH's grandad I loved him and cared for him as my own and I found it a really peaceful death; he'd chosen the time (he had stopped eating and drinking), it was on his terms.
Am I worrying needlessly do you think?
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DD was holding her great grandad's hand as he passed.
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mckenzie · 30/05/2016 17:56
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