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Can I ask a question about birthdays?

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GloriaHotcakes Sat 07-Nov-15 22:07:57

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loosechange Sat 07-Nov-15 22:20:10

I think that sounds very thoughtful. I suspect some people might avoid them at this point in their lives because they don't know what to say. Acknowledging their daughters life and what would have been a momentous day is acknowledging who she was and what tgey have lost. It shows she isn't forgotten by you.

Mehitabel6 Sat 07-Nov-15 22:27:59

It would be lovely. Everyone is there at the start and it is later on that you really appeeciate contact.

GloriaHotcakes Sun 08-Nov-15 15:42:04

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Stinkyfeet Sun 08-Nov-15 19:15:14

A card would be nice. Don't worry about upsetting them - they will already be upset.

I was very touched by people who sent cards or flowers on ds1's birthday this year - it meant he hadn't been forgotten.

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