My DD and her best friend are both 13. BF's mum has just died, she had cancer. She has spent a lot of time here since DD met her last year and we all love her to bits. My heart is breaking for her. DD is so upset for her and worried as BF was very close to her mum and has been bullied at school, suffers from anxiety and depression and has said that she can't go on without her mum. I never met her mum sadly but we want to help BF as much as we can.
BF has asked DD to attend the funeral with her. I would like to go as too as DD has never been to a funeral before and I want to be there to support them both if I can. DD is going to check if that's ok.
She knows I post on MN and has asked me to post for some advice on how best to support her friend. She is very scared of saying the wrong thing and upsetting her but also wants to help as much as she can.
I feel so desperately sad for her, 13 is such a terrible age to be going through the loss of your mum. Any advice would be very much appreciated.
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QueenWitch · 05/06/2015 00:41
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