Advice needed please !!!
I recently lost my Nanna and are soon to collect the ashes. One of her two sons wants to scatter them in his garden and my dad is okay with this. However, her 6 grand child inc myself, I very strongly feel that they shouldn't be scattered there for the following reasons
- His garden is at the opposite end of the country to where she lived for her whole life - although she did die in his home during a visit.
- He has only just bought the property and is 70 himself And in poor health so when he dies the house will be sold and we will have no family place to go and think about Nanna.
- We feel that her ashes should be scattered in her home town somewhere and possibly somewhere we can visit and her great grand children can visit.
How do we raise this so soon and without causing upset or arguments ????