I lost my beautiful niece back in the summer, she was stillborn at 37 weeks, she was perfect. My heart is so sad for my sister, her husband and little boy. I think of them constantly and about how them must be feeling.
I am struggling with the grief myself, I was so looking forward to being an Aunty again. Then there is part of me that feels, maybe I should have moved on by now, but it is hard, its not like when an older relative has passed away, the only memories are with the few precious hours we got with her at the hospital.
I am struggling as I feel that my friend who i have known for 35 years has deserted me. I heard nothing from her for weeks after my niece died. It wasn't until I messaged her and told her how disappointed I was that she hadnt been in touch, she couldnt understand what she had done wrong. I now for certai if it had been the other way round I would have been round hers like a shot. That was back in October, we met up, ive heard nothing since.
I have had a lovely friend through all this, it has certainly made see who matters to me.
My problem is, sorry if the post is long winded, do I get in touch again, as I am still hurting and will for along time, or just move on from her?
I am struggling as I feel my oldes friend, whom I have knkwn for 35 years has deserted me. I
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mrsgiggle · 02/12/2014 22:14
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