DF died suddenly 5 months ago. Days after he died, my DD took seriously ill and was rushed into hospital twice and just as we were getting over those events, DM fell and broke her hip and spent 6 weeks in hospital.
I have spent the last few months running on autopilot, not really having time to think about what has happened - just dealing with it all on a practical level, as needed.
DM, who has needed a lot of support, lives a 1 1/2 hr drive away. I have been visiting weekly to help care for her - in addition to caring for my DD who is disabled. I thought I was coping - until last week.
I took my DS out for a rare day out as DD was in respite. On the way home I suffered a panic attack whilst driving on the motorway. I got off the motorway and slowly managed to get home with lots of stops. Ever since then, I have started to feel stressed whenever I think about driving and can feel my chest tightening as soon as I get in the driver's seat - even if I am only going very short distances on roads that I know well. I have seen my GP who has recommended CBT and has given low dose beta blockers for occasional use, but 1st time I tried them, they didn't seem to do anything.
Has anyone else had symptoms of stress hit them suddenly, months after the trauma of losing a loved one, even though they thought they were coping?
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offtoseethewizard64 · 03/05/2014 19:40
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