My dear mum passed away this morning. She was 81 and had been in a nursing home after suffering a severe stroke over 4 years ago. The stroke left her paralysed down on side, unable to speak or swallow food and doubley incontinent. I felt like I lost my mum years ago as cognitively she just wasn't there. It was also really upsetting to see her like that, a shell of a woman. Twice last year the nursing home thought she was close to death but she pulled through. I am glad now her suffering is finally over. I am trying to remember her as she was before the stroke, how kind she was, her love of knitting and tapestry, her lovely cooking and cuddles when I was a kid. RIP Mum.
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