My dad died very suddenly 5 years ago next weekend. He went into hospital for a minor procedure on the Thursday. Had his op on the Friday. Started to deteriorate on Saturday tea time and we were all called to the hospital. We stayed at the hospital til Tuesday lunch time and he passed away early Tuesday morning.
Ive always had an amazing memory for detail and every year from Saturday tea time I almost literally relive the whole weekend. I remember aspects noone else does and can pretty much tell you at any point what we were doing at a specific time. Ive taken 2 days off work because I know ill be fit for nothing
Apart from the anniversary weekend I cope pretty well with the loss of my dad.
Has anyone else found they do this and how did they cope or break the cycle
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Arkina · 20/01/2014 04:07
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