I can't believe I'm name changing again, crap things just keep happening. My darling baby brother and his lovely wife found out today at their weekly scan that they have lost one of their beautiful twin boys. I have no words to express how sad I feel for them. I have called and spoken to him but she is resting, of course. How can I help them? I have a bf 7 month old baby and they live about an hour away so realistically I can't leave him and additionally I am taking him into hospital for a major operation on Monday so although usually I'd say sod it and leave babe with DH and a bottle, I just don't feel able to do that right now. Sorry it's not about me but I didn't want to drip feed. I am very much a 'fix it' person who gives advice and help, always has an opinion. Luckily I also have some emotional intelligence so have felt this is not the time to do that. I gave them bags and bags of baby clothes a few weeks ago, I just feel awful about it. Can anyone give me advice so that I help them hold their pain, not make it worse?
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