NCed for this. I sort of wanted to put it in AIBU but I'm not sure I'm feeling robust enough.
We lost a child this year. At the time we got cards and messages and everyone said 'please tell us if there's anything we can do' and we didn't really because what could they do? But we did say to some people that we'd like company on occasion because we'd got very isolated while our child was very ill. That worked out a bit but far more people just carried on and forgot about it all, like you'd expect.
But it's coming up to Christmas and not one single member of either of our families is willing to spend it with us. It's DS (3) first 'proper' Christmas too, so perhaps that would make people interested. But our relatives are either busy with other bits of family or want to stay at home. When I got upset with one person, she said we could all go and spend it at her house, but she doesn't really 'do' Christmas or cook Christmas lunch, which didn't sound too tempting. We'd also like to be at home. Not even DS's grandparents are coming, as they want to stay at home. We just wanted a big jolly Christmas to hide the missing place at the table. Friends are also too busy, and I understand they have lives of their own.
I feel very let down, and dreading it all.
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Cloakedinmystery · 24/10/2013 10:02
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