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Its Jesse's anniversary today

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JellyNump Sun 28-May-06 12:24:48

1 year ago today my ds died aged 9 weeks and 2 days

bramblina Sun 28-May-06 12:31:26

I remember your lo's name, Jesse in a story. I'm so sorry. Do you think you will feel better when today is over? Take care. xx

rickman Sun 28-May-06 13:20:13

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AllieBongo Sun 28-May-06 13:21:00

so sorry. hope you have some nice memories x

MarsLady Sun 28-May-06 13:27:07

Beauregard Sun 28-May-06 13:55:30

Very very sorryhope your beautiful angel rests in peace.

doobydoo Sun 28-May-06 14:23:36

Ahhh Jellynump.

LIZS Sun 28-May-06 14:29:40

Hope you can find a positive way of commemorating him today.

CaptainDippy Sun 28-May-06 15:02:29

I am so sorry, words quite simply aren't enough, but thoughts and prayers are with you today - and in the weeks / months ahead. [[[hugs]]]

FrannyandZooey Sun 28-May-06 15:10:18

Ah no. That is a terrible thing to hear, Jellynump. I am so sorry.

foundintranslation Sun 28-May-06 15:29:47


So very sorry, jellynump, and although words aren't enough, my thoughts are with you.

Rowlers Sun 28-May-06 15:34:04

This is so sad.
Hope the sun is shining on you today.

JellyNump Sun 28-May-06 22:23:26

Today hasn't been as bad as I thought, it doesn't feel like a whole year has gone and we've been so busy in the meantime, with dd arriving and trying to get our house up together to put on the market, he has started to feel a bit like a 'dream' tho because 9 weeks was such a short time and 4 of those were spent in the hospital. He died really unexpectedly (Intrapulmonary shunting during an op), so I think we're still in shock

threelittlebabies Sun 28-May-06 23:07:16

Oh jellynump, I am so so sorry to hear this. I hope the day has been peaceful and gentle for you all. I am thinking of you. Much love xxx

CaptainDippy Wed 31-May-06 09:01:22

How are you doing JellyNump?? [[[hugs]]]

JellyNump Thu 01-Jun-06 20:57:56

Not doing so bad, thanx. We didn't manage to get to the grave on his anniversary which is sad, we don't seem to have as much time now as the house is on the market and that does make me feel guilty. I know Jess isn't really there but I do feel like I should make more time to visit his grave, although when I get there, I don't feel any 'closer' to him. My Mum, Dad and Brother and my aunt went to visit him tho and put flowers on him, so that made me feel better.

VeniVidiVickiQV Thu 01-Jun-06 21:20:46

Im so sorry JN

KateF Thu 01-Jun-06 21:26:01

Sleep peacefully little Jesse. Hope it helps to post JellyNump, wishing peace for you too.

JellyNump Thu 01-Jun-06 23:11:55

KateF - It does help to post because I wanted people to know about him, I didn't want him to be just a random grave stone

biglips Thu 01-Jun-06 23:22:31

im ssoooo sorry to hear

Greyhound Thu 01-Jun-06 23:45:16

So very sorry Sending you hugs, peace and comfort as you remember and mourn your beautiful son... xxxx

kid Thu 01-Jun-06 23:48:11

Really sorry to hear your of your loss.
It amazes me that people are able to find the strength to carry on, its not something I feel I would be strong enough to do.

amyjade Fri 02-Jun-06 11:14:33

Thinking of you jellynump x

Kid, As parents it is normal to feel that the death of a child would be too hard to cope with but us bereaved parents have no choice but to go on, i live on to honour the memory of my daughter as i'm sure Jellynump does.

Jellynump
I know how guilty i feel when i don't visit Freya's grave for a while but like you i don't feel any closer to her there, our home is where i feel her the most, she filled every room with laughter and happiness and that is how i want to think of her.

I don't know Jesse's story but as a bereaved parent who also lost a child just over a year ago i just wanted to let you know that i understand what pain these anniversarys bring.

Take care xxx

Marina Fri 02-Jun-06 11:24:48

Dear JellyNump, thinking of you and Jesse. XXX
I am not sure if you saw my post a while ago but I think there is a SANDS member who specialises in finding "named" plants for bereaved parents. I think it was you wondering about this (apologies if not), SANDS HQ may be able to help.

JellyNump Sat 03-Jun-06 23:33:17

Marina - Yes, thanks, I did see your SANDS plant name post

Amyjade - There is a post about Jesse on here with all that happened, its quite along story

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