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2nd stillbirth in 6 months. In shock.

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desperatehousewife Mon 22-May-06 14:25:20

Had stillbirth at end of november - at 25 weeks. Got pregnant again 2 months later and went for 16 week scan this morning to be told this baby has died too. Am in shock but devestated - seems so unfair to happen twice in a row.

That's it really - just wanted to tell someone. I have to give birth on Wednesday.

I have felt like such a lucky person all my life and at the moment am feeling bloody unlucky and don't quite know what to make of it.

whereas in november I always knew i'd have another baby, this time I just don't know if I could go through pregnancy again. Am feeling pretty grim about the whole thing to be honest.

Carmenere Mon 22-May-06 14:26:40

You poor poor darling

hulababy Mon 22-May-06 14:27:00

So sorry It is very unfair.

moondog Mon 22-May-06 14:27:16


unicorn Mon 22-May-06 14:28:04

omg, how truly awful for you. I am so very, very sorry.
Hopefully someone will be along who can give you some better advice/support.
I really am so very sorry, and I agree,it isn't fair at all.

foundintranslation Mon 22-May-06 14:28:22

I'm so, so, so very very sorry, dh.

Feistybird Mon 22-May-06 14:29:28

I just don't know what to say, this is so terribly sad.

schneebly Mon 22-May-06 14:31:10

Oh god - have tears in my eyes - so very sorry that you have to go through this again. It really isn't fair. Sending love.

Pruni Mon 22-May-06 14:32:31

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twocatsonthebed Mon 22-May-06 14:32:42

Oh dhw, I'm so, so sorry to hear that . I will be thinking of you so much on Wed.

Fimbo Mon 22-May-06 14:32:54

Words seem so useless.

bossykate Mon 22-May-06 14:34:04

so, so sorry

cece Mon 22-May-06 14:35:08

I am so sorry to hear this - our thoughts are with you. We will all think of you on Weds.

YellowFeathers Mon 22-May-06 14:35:44

So sorry Dhw


LadyTophamHatt Mon 22-May-06 14:36:32

Oh my god DHW...I'm so unbelievabley sorry.

I really don't know what to say. You poor thing.

I'm absolutley gutted for you

CountessDracula Mon 22-May-06 14:37:10

So sorry dhw

BettySpaghetti Mon 22-May-06 14:37:28

so sorry

Tommy Mon 22-May-06 14:37:46

so terribly sorry for you
Can't say anything to make you feel better but hope it helps knowing that people are here for you.

LIZS Mon 22-May-06 14:38:01

I'm so sorry, thinking of you.

expatinscotland Mon 22-May-06 14:42:11

so sorry, desperate.

Esmummy Mon 22-May-06 14:44:47

DHW So so sorry, don't know what to say at all.
Thinking of you

emkana Mon 22-May-06 14:45:23

I am so so sorry.

hoxtonchick Mon 22-May-06 14:45:59

oh how how awful dhw, i'm so sorry. .

threelittlebabies Mon 22-May-06 14:51:00

dhw I am so, so sorry. I have been through this, and I don't know what to say either. I am devestated for you. Will be thinking of you on Wednesday and the coming months x

GDG Mon 22-May-06 14:52:51

So, so sorry dhw - thinking of you

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