It's taken me a few days to post, I've been avoiding making a decision, any guidance on how to make this decision would ge great, if not just a hand to hold.
My wonderful Grandad passed away Thursday evening, he had my Gran with him but it was all too quick for the rest of the family to get there in time.
By the time we drove over on Friday, he had been moved from his bed to a funeral home. I now have to decide if I want to go and see him before the funeral this Friday. The rest of the family arrived during the night and saw him in his bed before he was moved.
My initial feeling was no I wouldn't be strong enough but DH wants me to be sure I won't regret it if I don't and has reassured me that it won't be easy but he'll be with me every step if I want to. I have the most wonderful memory of the last time I saw him at Easter sitting in the sunshine smiling and happy. I'm currently 26 weeks pregnant and he was so excited about it's arrival (my first DC but would have been his 2nd Great-Grandchild).
I hope this makes sense to someone. I'm totally devistated and struggling a lot at the moment.
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RuckAndRoll · 06/05/2013 13:23
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