Can I please ask for some advice?
A friend very sadly had a baby at around 6mo and the baby didn't survive.
I want to let this friend know I am thinking of them but it is quite recent and I doubt they are even thinking of me at this point. We tend to meet up every few months with our older kids and we get on very well, but can't get together all the time.
I was told about the baby's death by a mutual friend who is much closer to the bereaved parents and sees them very often.
To make things slightly complicated, I am currently 35 weeks pregnant myself. The bereaved mother and I were excited about seeing each other more when we had our new babies. So I feel she may not want to see me at the moment for obvious reasons.
What can I do? I was going to write her a letter to tell her how terribly sorry I was. Would this be the best thing to do? Is there anything I can aside from that - a donation to a charity, plant a tree, a gift?
I feel so so terribly sad and upset for her but want to let her know I am there. Any advice would be gratefully appreciated.
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RubyrooUK · 09/02/2013 17:28
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