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Are we doing the right thing?(2 Posts)
Hiya Im just after some reassurance really. Since Dec 5th me and dp have had to go through 3mc's. We have now decided to wait a year or so before trying again. I will be having some recurrent mc testing when my next period arrives and I know its gonna be at least 3/4 months before we can try again whilst we are waiting for results and stuff.
I feel sad though that we cant try again sooner. I know my body needs a break and so do our hearts from hurting. They dont know why i keep losing our babies. So i think im doing the right thing i dont want to make anymore Angels. But i know i can do it as i alreay have a little boy who will be 4 next week. Alls we want to do is give him a little brother or sister. But all the waiting is getting me down (
I can't say anything other than time is the greatest healer, but when you're going through it you really don't want to wait. We suffered 4 mc's over 3 yrs, time inbetween those was just ttc, those years were awful and I think I've blocked them out of my memory. I also had the tests, and there was nothing wrong. The day I had the last lots of bloods taken turned out to be the day my ds was conceived- he's 8months old now. Knowing you can do it is wonderful but all I can say is be patient, and confident. Easy for me to say, I know, but really, what's meant for you will not go by you. Lots of luck