(namechanged for this as don't want to out my friend)
An old friend lost his baby two days after she was born.
I have been supportive and think I have said the right things. But it is complicated as he is an old friend and I don't really know his wife and I don't want things to become weird or for me to get in the way of their relationship.
The problem is that his wife is taking things very badly (obviously!) and he is being strong for the whole family (they have two other dcs) .. they live abroad so I can;t help practically. He confides in me. I don't really know how to handle it or what to say.
What should I do?
I have suggested that they get some counselling / therapy etc., that they lean on friends and family .. but i think easier for him to talk to me as I am removed from the whole situation.
Any advice greatly appreciated..
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lostintheforest · 10/12/2012 10:08
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