We found out on Monday afternoon that one of our friends, one of OH's oldest friends, was found dead that morning. He was very mentally unwell and struggled for years but we don't know cause.
I just don't know how to cope with it. He was genuinely one of the sweetest people I've ever met in my life. We don't know if it was accident or what. I keep crying, in work silly things make me well up.
He was so musically talented. OH recorded some music with him, we have lots of his tapes and books that he lent us over the years.
There's still another week to go until the funeral.
I just don't really know what to do with myself. Even if it was suicide, I couldn't be angry with him because life was just so much for him.
I don't know why I've started this, just don't feel that I'm coping very well. Feel like I should be doing more to support OH, but I don't know what. It's DS's birthday on Saturday, he's so excited.
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roughtyping · 29/11/2012 21:49
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