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Remembering my son Oliver.

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Everlong Tue 06-Nov-12 14:22:05

Four years today.

I don't know whether it's flown or not.

My lovely, kind, beautiful, funny boy. Who will always be 20 years old.

I don't think the date will ever pass easily. It's like you are transported right back. Horrible.

Always loved.

AlphaBeta82 Tue 06-Nov-12 14:28:46

I'm sorry, this isn't a post a parent should ever have to write and i can't imagine how hard it must be for you.
Sending you best wishes and hugs.
Rest in peace Oliver. xxxx

mumof2teenboys Tue 06-Nov-12 14:45:36

Thinking of you today, you have been so kind to me and have helped me so much.
Many thoughts and parayers with you and your family.
RIP Oliver xx

DreamsTurnToGoldDust Tue 06-Nov-12 14:49:22

Everlong, I can only imagine how hard it is for you and yes no parent should ever be where you are. More thoughts are with you and much love to you and your family xxxx

RIP Oliver x

HollyMadison Tue 06-Nov-12 14:55:57

I'm sorry for your loss everlong. Sending you a hug. Xx

GooseyLoosey Tue 06-Nov-12 14:57:32

Hope you can remember your son with some peace.

TequilaMockingMagpie Tue 06-Nov-12 14:58:47

Thinking of your lovely Oliver today everlong , four years ! No time at all yet a lifetime lived without him .

lavandes Tue 06-Nov-12 15:02:08

Sending lots of love to you and your family today Everlong. All of these days are so painful. xxx

Thinking of you and Oliver today and always x

Charleymouse Tue 06-Nov-12 15:04:23

Oh heavens Everlong it can't possibly be four years can it? Realises it must be as DS1 should have been 5 this year. how can time go so fast and so slow all at the same time. Thinking of you and your lovely boy today.

Always loved, never forgotten.


CiderwithBuda Tue 06-Nov-12 15:04:28

Gosh Everlong. Is it four years?

I wish I could say something that would make you feel better but I am sure nothing will. sad

Thinking of you today.


ExitPursuedByABrrrrrrr Tue 06-Nov-12 15:13:55

Oh Everlong - many hugs.

GRW Tue 06-Nov-12 16:34:52

I hope the happy memories of Oliver will be uppermost in your mind today. Thinking of you x

TequilaMockingMagpie Tue 06-Nov-12 17:23:06

How you doing everlong ?

It's tw in disguise by the way x

Everlong Tue 06-Nov-12 18:29:12

Thank you all for your hugs. I need them.

tw you know how it is, you put that brave face on for so long and pretend you're ok but sometimes ( like today ) it's just too hard. I hate it. I want him back.. I'll be ok it's just because it's today. It's only a date I know that, like any other without him, irrational really.

Selks Tue 06-Nov-12 18:30:36

So sorry for your loss.

TequilaMockingMagpie Tue 06-Nov-12 18:35:16

Rational.doesn't come into everlong , I always feel a bit like the pagans felt about Halloween around harrys anniversary , the two halves of my world collide and I can't nod and smile anymore . It will pass but it is bloody tiring while it lasts .

Bit hugs and a large gin to you x

Tamisara Tue 06-Nov-12 20:16:43

Oh Everlong (((hugs))). Thinking of you & your lovely boy - lots of love xxxxx xxxxx

Everlong Tue 06-Nov-12 21:05:54

Thank you tami xxxx

giraffesCantLightFireworks Tue 06-Nov-12 22:39:00

Thinking of you x

Is my dds birthday today. Hard day. Couldn't wait to get home from work to cry.

I know I can't say anything, but thoughts with you

Everlong Tue 06-Nov-12 22:43:53

Hugs for you too giraffes xx

FarrowAndBollock Tue 06-Nov-12 22:45:24

So sorry sad.

Hassled Tue 06-Nov-12 22:46:58

It's not just a date, though, is it? And 4 years is nothing, really. He's still your boy.

Giraffes - I'm sorry. So many hard days.

WheatenFarlo Tue 06-Nov-12 22:56:01

Thinking of you and Oliver. I am so sorry.

Thinking of you too, giraffes.

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