I don't know her very well but she has a child in ds's year and lives up the road from me so we sometimes walk to school together. She told me this morning that she is pg and due in October (I was due in Sept but miscarried 3 weeks ago - she didn't know this). I congratulated her but then left it less than a minute (or so it seemed) before I told her that I'd just miscarried. I feel such a bitch. My whole head was screaming 'keep smiling! don't tell her!'. But I did. Feel awful for making it about my loss rather than her happiness.
I apologised afterwards and she was very nice about it but feel rotton now. I feel rubbish for not behaving better to her and I feel rubbish because I know that everytime I see her and her pregnancy (and then baby) I'm going to be thinking about mine.
And it's sad as well because I didn't think I was going to know anyone having another child and I was going to have to start again at babygroups and suchlike. She is really lovely and it would have been so nice to have our babies together.
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wish I could have been happier for friend who has just announced her pregnancy.
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cupcakes · 28/03/2006 10:44
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